My Simple Rule
If a guest offers to bring something, easy and reasonable options are pies, ice, spirits or other beverages, and snack trays. The basic menu is yours unless someone offers to bring one of those items.
How much should you ask them to bring?
If you’re feeding more than about eight people, supplement each dish with your own, or ask two guests to bring that dish.
Keeping Guest Foods Hot
If your guests can bring their dish in a slow cooker, keep a place open by an outlet for them. Other methods of keeping food hot include chaffing dishes heated with canned heat such as Sterno, or hot plates that plug into the wall. These are a great investment (not too pricey and easy to store). Be sure to plan space and sources of power for everything.
Have plenty of serving dishes and utensils available for serving guest dishes, or ask that they bring everything needed to serve their dish from the table. For instance, if they bring something in a slow cooker, they’ll need a dish to transfer it to for serving. No matter what, something unplanned will happen with a guest’s contribution, so be flexible and go with the flow.
You’re the Host
Nobody should be expected to bring anything. If they ask what they can bring, give them an assignment that feeds 6-8 people (that’s about how many slices are in a pie, for instance). If they offer something specific, just say yes (unless it is something truly unwelcome). Your guests are guests first. If you can’t swing providing everything, maybe a smaller crowd or a co-host are good options.
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Thanks for so many wonderful tip that make sense!!
You’re very welcome! I have been really enjoying writing this series. Some tips are simple and more for those who have less experience hosting, but even seasoned pros can use a new tip or trick!